Plans pile up in TikTok and Instagram favourites, then quietly die there.
Your next outing is one swipe away. The couple app that picks it, plans it, and keeps it.
Real places and events around you, dealt like a deck of cards. Other apps hand you a list of ideas and leave you to it. Pomia picks the one that fits the two of you tonight, plans it for a moment when you are both free, and keeps it as a memory on your map once you have lived it.
Works entirely on your own too.
What fades away, without anyone noticing
Nobody argues. Nothing breaks. Things just get lost, one by one.
It loses the day, the place, and what the two of you thought of it. Nobody ever opens it again.
No crisis. Just evenings where the day gives you nothing to tell, until it becomes a habit.
One place for the whole thing, from the idea to the memory.
Pomia is where the two of you decide what to do, plan it, live it, and keep it. Four moments that usually live in four different apps, and mostly nowhere at all.
It picks your next outing. You just swipe.
Every other app hands you a list of date ideas and leaves you to it. Pomia deals you real places and events around you, one card at a time, and chooses which ones to show: restaurants, exhibitions, walks, concerts, flea markets. Swipe right to like, left to pass, up to plan it. The deck learns what the two of you love, and a card you pass never comes back.
- It chooses for you, from what is actually open around you, not from a generic list
- On the evening you hesitate, the map answers “What shall we do?” with the one plan closest to both of you
- Three cards a day for free, ten with your share
Measured on 120 simulated couples over a month, against 44% for cards drawn at random. We built the deck to be good at choosing, then checked that it was.
→ The ramen by the canal: 1.2 km away, and it expires on Sunday.
A card you keep becomes a date, a place, a plan.
Swipe up and the outing lands in your plans with its address and its distance, on both phones at once. Then Pomia does the planning: you each say when you are free, on weekdays and at weekends, and every plan gets a day and a two-hour slot when you both are, in the weeks ahead, never two on the same evening. If you allow it, the slot goes into your phone calendar too, and moves with the plan. You can also paste a TikTok, Instagram or YouTube link, and the app turns the video into plans with their places already found.
- A plan you did not get to is moved forward by itself, from the next day on, and your other half sees the new day at once
- Birthdays and anniversaries come back every year on the same calendar
- An event keeps its own last day as its deadline, so it never expires quietly
The evening you lived becomes a polaroid, pinned where it happened.
A photo, a word from each of you, a rating out of five hearts. The plan you did turns into a memory in the same spot, and lands on the map at its exact place. The map becomes the album: your city fills up with the evenings you actually had, and you find them again by place rather than by scrolling.
- Snapped on the fly from the Home screen, one tap, no menu
- Both of you write your own word and your own rating on the same memory
- Found again by place, by tag, or by pulling on the map
- When the outing ends, Pomia asks for the photo and the word, so nothing gets forgotten
Relive: your own deck, dealt back to you.
A camera roll keeps the picture and loses the evening. Once you have a few memories, Relive deals you a small deck of your own, about twelve cards a day, chosen among the oldest and the best rated. You swipe them like the first time, you open one to read what the two of you wrote that night, and tomorrow the deck is different.
- A new deck every day, the same for both of you, reshuffled at midnight
- Tap a card to reread both your words, both your photos
- Turn any memory into a story card, saved straight to your camera roll
And between two outings, everything that keeps you close.
None of this is the point of the app. All of it is there so the days in between are not empty.
One question a day, thirty seconds, years of small discoveries.
One of you asks, the other guesses. A flame counts the days you both kept it up, a sentence waits for your other half under Pomia on the Home screen, and five sliders say how your day went. On your own, the question flips into “Would you rather…”.
Go on, try an answer.
“What is my guilty pleasure?”
A small pixel world where you run into each other.
Two characters that look like you, drawn in a minute. They stroll along the bottom of your Home screen, and they live in a garden with a house and mini games.
You bury a letter. It will not open before the date.
You each slip a long text and three photos into the garden. Nobody reads anything before the day, not even their own half.
Running, saving, reading. And what the other one loves.
A target, a rhythm, a counter that goes all the way, and a trophy at the end. Plus a notebook of nine answers, for the day you have no idea what to give them.
Care for a look inside?
Six corners of the app, sketched from life.
You have nobody to convince before you start.
This is not a stripped down trial. On your own you swipe the deck and your plans get their date, your memories land on your map, the garden is yours, and the question of the day flips into “Would you rather…”.
What you live belongs to the two of you alone.
The model is simple: you pay for the app, nobody pays for your data.
Hosted in Europe
Your photos and your words stay on European servers, under GDPR.
Zero advertising, zero data brokers
No ads, nobody buying your data, no tracker without your consent, not now and not later. We only count how the app is used, never what you put in it.
Deleted in one gesture
Deleting the account wipes the shared life for both of you and gives you back your private one. No questions.
Pomia, in plain words
The facts, for anyone who wants them without the story.
- What it is
- A couple app for iPhone and Android, and one place for the whole thing: it picks what the two of you do next, plans it, then keeps it as a memory on your map. Made by two people, for two.
- Who it is for
- Couples who want to do more together, and anyone on their own who wants to keep what they live. Everything works solo, and follows you the day you pair up.
- What it costs
- Free to start: three discoveries a day, and limits on photos, plans, dates and capsules. A share, paid per person, lifts your own limits; two shares lift the couple’s. Monthly or yearly, cancel any time, and nothing is ever deleted.
- Where it runs
- On iPhone, on the App Store since 30 September 2026, and on Android, on Google Play since 24 October 2026. Six languages: English, French, Spanish, Portuguese, German and Italian, down to the widgets and notifications.
- Where your data lives
- On servers in Frankfurt, in the European Union. No advertising, no data brokers, no tracking without your consent. Only what you type or switch on is stored, and your account is deleted in one gesture.
- Who makes it
- Two people who use it every day. Write to contact@pomia.app, a real person answers.
The little walk goes on. Tap them, they will say hello.


