Between the two of you

Your data belongs to you

Pomia is an app for two, or for one, that keeps your memories and your small daily rituals. It carries no advertising, no tracker without your consent, and we never sell your data.

Hosted in Europe Zero advertising Deletable in one gesture

What we record

Everything below is either something you typed, something you switched on, or a plain count of how the app is used. Nothing else is collected quietly in the background.

Your account

An email address verified by code, a first name and a password stored encrypted and never readable by us. If you choose to, a verified phone number so you can recover your account.

What you create

Memories, photos, plans, dates, the words you leave each other, goals and time capsules. This content is readable only by you and, if you are paired, by your other half.

Your location

Only if you turn sharing on. It is visible to your other half alone, disappears the moment you turn the switch off, and expires by itself after twenty four hours. The app never follows you in the background without your knowledge.

Your notification address

Only if you accept notifications. It is removed when you sign out or turn them off.

Your subscription

Which plan is active and when it expires. We never see your payment details. Apple on iPhone, or Google Play on Android, handles the payment and tells us only whether it went through.

The links you paste

When you use link import, the link and the public page behind it are read by a language model in order to turn them into plans. We keep the plans, we do not keep the page.

How the app is used

Which screens open and which features are used: the name of the action, the moment, your app version, tied to your account identifier so that we count people rather than taps. Never what you write, never a photo, never a place. It tells us where people get stuck, nothing more.

Where you came from, if you agree

On iPhone, Pomia asks once whether it may measure which advertisement, if any, led you to install it. If you say yes, AppsFlyer records it, along with three steps: account created, other half linked, share taken. Apple confirms the install to the advertiser without saying who you are, and sends us the same anonymous confirmation. Never your content, never your phone’s advertising identifier, which Pomia does not ask for. If you say no, nothing is sent; you can change your answer at any time in Settings.

Visits to this website

Cloudflare counts which pages of this site are visited, from which country and on which kind of device, without cookies and without recognising anyone. We see totals, never a person.

Where your data lives

On Appwrite Cloud servers hosted in Frankfurt, Germany, inside the European Union. Photos are stored in a private space: no public address can reach them.

A few of the services listed further down sit in the United States, and only they receive anything outside the Union. Never your content, only what their job needs.

Who can read what

Every piece of data carries its own permissions, checked by the server rather than hidden by a screen. What you share is readable by your couple only, what you keep to yourself by you alone. Anything you mark as yours stays yours: it follows you when you pair up, and it follows you if you part.

If you part

Breaking up destroys nothing. Each of you leaves with what was private, and the shared life stays in the couple you both left, kept for one year in case you come back, then erased for good. Come back within the year and we ask you first: pick your story up where it stopped, or start fresh. Starting fresh erases the old one immediately.

Deleting your account

From the app: Settings, then “Delete my account”. Deletion is immediate and final. Account, reviews, photos and location included. If you were paired, the couple you shared is destroyed with it, and your other half leaves with what was theirs alone.

Every step, what is erased and what remains

The services that help us

None of these services receives more than its own function strictly requires, and none of them is allowed to use it for anything else.

Appwrite Cloud

Hosts your account and your content.

European Union

Expo

Carries push notifications to your phone.

European Union

Firebase Cloud Messaging

Google’s delivery service, through which Expo hands notifications to Android phones. It receives your phone’s notification address and the notification itself.

United States

Apple Maps or Google Maps

Draw the map underneath: Apple Maps on iPhone, the Google Maps SDK on Android.

United States

OpenStreetMap Nominatim

Finds the addresses you type.

European Union

Google Places

Finds the real places around you for the discovery deck: name, address, rating, photos. It receives the approximate position you are searching from, never your account.

European Union

OpenAgenda

Lists the public events around you for the same deck. It receives the area you are looking at, never your account.

European Union

Ticketmaster

Lists ticketed events around you for the same deck. It receives the area you are looking at, never your account.

United States

Apple

Takes the payment for a subscription on iPhone. We receive the outcome, never the card.

European Union

Google Play

Takes the payment for a subscription on Android. We receive the outcome, never the card.

European Union

RevenueCat

Checks that a purchase made through Apple or Google is genuine. It receives a random purchase identifier and the state of your subscription. If you agreed to advertising measurement, it also receives the identifier your phone gives Pomia and the AppsFlyer installation identifier, to pass your purchases on to AppsFlyer.

United States

Anthropic

The language model that reads a link you paste and turns it into plans. It receives the link and the public page, never your account or your content.

United States

Apify

Reads certain public pages that refuse to be read directly. It receives the link alone.

Region not stated

Resend

Sends the verification code by email. It receives your email address, your first name and the code, nothing else.

United States

Twilio

Sends the verification code when you add a phone number. It receives that number alone.

United States

PostHog

Counts how the app is used. It receives your account identifier and the names of what you do in the app, never your content.

European Union

AppsFlyer

Only if you agree, on iPhone: tells us which advertisement brought you to Pomia, and whether you then created an account, linked your other half or took a share. It receives a random installation identifier and the identifier your phone gives Pomia, never your content and never the advertising identifier.

United States

Cloudflare

Hosts this website and counts visits to it without cookies.

United States

Age

Pomia is for people aged 14 and over. We do not ask for your date of birth. If you gave one in an earlier version, the app turns it into an ordinary birthday in your calendar, which you can edit or delete, then erases it from your account.

Writing to us

For any question or request about your data, a copy, a correction, an erasure, write to contact@pomia.app and a real person will answer.

Written by two people, not by a legal department.

If a single line here is unclear, that is our failure, not yours. Write to us and we will rewrite it.

contact@pomia.app

Last updated September 2026 · version 1.4